tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7210138311212937855.post1566292515030448407..comments2023-06-07T04:54:23.618-05:00Comments on Doc201X's blog from middle aged premed to Doc201X, where's my "scripper scrapper"??: Confirmation to a view!Doc201Xhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03256674607622605620noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7210138311212937855.post-38485972503953502542012-12-01T17:31:20.638-06:002012-12-01T17:31:20.638-06:00Kris, I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this analogy, ROTFLMBAO!!...Kris, I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this analogy, ROTFLMBAO!!! Because you are EXACTLY right and I'm gonna' try my damndest to think of this when it happens from now on!Doc201Xhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03256674607622605620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7210138311212937855.post-28564395060170893772012-12-01T16:39:04.118-06:002012-12-01T16:39:04.118-06:00It helps to step back and just visualize that they...It helps to step back and just visualize that they are throwing crap at you....no seriously.....step back and when they start up, imagine them digging into a big pail of shit and tossing it in a tantrum. Let the shit fall on the ground and look at it. Is it worth your emotional energy to pick it up? Is it really important? You get to decide. It's their shit. You can get your hands dirty, or not. :)<br /><br />Kriskrishttp://www.dawkterswife.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7210138311212937855.post-63965164366446925382012-11-27T07:16:12.965-06:002012-11-27T07:16:12.965-06:00GREAT comment Kris, I think you're absolutely ...GREAT comment Kris, I think you're absolutely right, life really is all about perspective! I just find it so difficult sometimes not to respond to other people trying to dump their crap on me, but I realize I need to master it!Doc201Xhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03256674607622605620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7210138311212937855.post-6797890733863748752012-11-26T16:27:29.504-06:002012-11-26T16:27:29.504-06:00I find as I get older that it is all about perspec...I find as I get older that it is all about perspective. I used to really believe that someone elses criticisms were a reflection of me as a person...that they somehow assessed my value and worth. Now I know that at best they are a response to my words/behaviors and also are a reflection of the person being critical. Now when someone is critical, I hear their words, assess what may or may not be true, decide how important of an issue it is in my life, and let their issues go. I almost never get riled up about it all now!<br /><br />KrisKrishttp://www.dawkterswife.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7210138311212937855.post-7667524764636423172012-11-24T15:12:38.390-06:002012-11-24T15:12:38.390-06:00Thank you so much Dr. Kay, for your comments! We M...Thank you so much Dr. Kay, for your comments! We MUST keep each other lifted up in prayer so that we may both become the Docs we are destined to be!Doc201Xhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03256674607622605620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7210138311212937855.post-42612158410569760462012-11-24T11:10:24.781-06:002012-11-24T11:10:24.781-06:00OMGosh, you are like the other me. This is so true...OMGosh, you are like the other me. This is so true. I am having a hard time with office politics and small talk. It bothers me to a whole other level I can't even describe. I know you will make it through. I honestly cannot wait until you make it to medical school. Heck, I thought my problems would be over once I got there but it seems they might actually get worse. It's funny you stated the two things you need to work on, which are some of the things the Lord has been dealing with me concerning my situation and position right now. I have faith that we will make it through. If we get more minorities in medicine, I honestly do believe the bullying with lessen to some degree. Not completely as some people want to be the only one and the only one that good at something. Anyway I am praying for you. Please keep me in prayer as well. God bless. He will fight our battles, my mother just told me that and constantly reminds me that I don't have to defend myself at work. XOXO Dr. Kay Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14867856850873370512noreply@blogger.com